I have a dear friend whose birthday is near Christmas. I have known this friend for about 15 years. Each year, her birthday seems to get postponed. We have even celebrated her birthday at Easter! Often, the celebration takes place a few weeks into the new year.
This last December, we discussed her birthday. I made a comment about her birthday and said, “Who knows when we will actually celebrate it this time!”
My friend answered firmly, “This year we will celebrate my birthday on time.” Her words were spoken with certainty and resolve.
A few days before her birthday, I received an invitation to have dinner with my friend and her husband. Since it was so close to her birthday, I asked her if it were okay for me to bring her presents. My friend expressed that she was open, and that whatever I wanted to do was fine with her.
It felt weird to be having her birthday party and it wasn’t even the new year yet. I brought the presents and we had a wonderful time! I said to my friend, “Wow I can hardly believe that we are actually celebrating your birthday not only on time but 2 days early!” Then I remembered her words, “This year we will celebrate my birthday on time.”
As you go through this day, I encourage you to remember the power of your commitments and the power of your spoken words. You can steer your ship, or you can let the winds of life choose for you. What works best for you?
