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You Can
Create A Happy Childhood Through Regressive Hypnosis. In recent years, a
great deal of research has been done and the American Medical Association
(AMA) now concedes that a vast majority (97%) of all physical disease begins
in a person's thinking process. Would it
shock you to know that something you think is causing you to either be happy
and well or unhappy and diseased? The keys to your being happy are in your
thoughts. It's that simple. Many of your most influential thoughts you may
not even be aware of thinking. When you
interacted with your family and environment as a child you made major
decisions about yourself and what life is all about. The decisions that you
made are the foundation of your belief system. As children we seem to absorb
these beliefs from our parents and our environment, although our parents do
not necessarily mean to impart these beliefs about our identity and about
life to us. These
decisions are stored in that part of our mind called the subconscious. The
subconscious is much like a computer. We enter data through the decisions
that we make as we go along life's way. Everything we have ever seen, heard,
felt, touched, tasted, and smelled is recorded in the subconscious, along
with our assessment or decision about what we experienced. Some of our
assessments are valid and some are not. A good
example is the well-known fact that when parents divorce, children very often
blame themselves for the divorce, when in fact, the child had absolutely
nothing to do with the problems between the parents. In doing so, that child
has just begun a pattern of taking responsibility (blame) for other people's
lives. Those patterns then begin to affect all their relationships, and even
influence their relationship choices. In
regressive hypnosis, I talk to the "Inner Child" to help them see
what really happened. I help them to remember those long
"forgotten" decisions, to reevaluate, and to make new adult
decisions that will support them in being happy and having what they want out
of life. The
following experiences illustrate how this process works. A teenage boy of
thirteen, very angry and belligerent, was having great difficulty in school,
both academically and socially. He was capable of being a good student
intellectually, but he wouldn't complete assignments, and frequently got into
trouble. I regressed him to the cause of his difficulty. He remembered being
a young boy, his parents having marital problems, and blaming himself. He
decided that there was something wrong with him or it would not be happening.
Then when his Dad left for good, he was certain that he was a bad boy. I
helped him to detach from his parents' problems, and give them their lives
back. It worked. In just a few days, he had gained a new interest and success
in his studies, and began to make new friends. I was
asked to help a woman who had breast and bone cancer. In interviewing her, it
became obvious that she had difficulty asserting and expressing herself. She
was greatly intimidated by a domineering husband. I guided her into her
subconscious computer, and found that she had judged herself, and was filled
with self hatred and anger. I had her imagine an army in her body fighting
the cancer cells. She described the army as being dressed in gray uniforms.
She explained that she was tired and didn't know if she could keep on with
the battle against cancer. Instead
of the grey uniformed confederates I helped her bring in a strong, invincible
army. She selected the Green Berets. Even in her efforts to get herself well,
her attitudes were affecting her ability to do so. A
16-year-old high school student was plagued with menstrual cramps that were
so severe that she missed two to three days of school each month. We explored
her forgotten memory of the cause. When she was two years old, her mother had
endometriosis. She said "Mommy hurts, so I will too." That
association of pain with the menstrual cycle was stored on file in her
subconscious until her body developed and her reproductive system became
active. Then in computer-like fashion, the subconscious signaled the body to
retrieve any data it had stored about menstruation. The information that it
retrieved was that it hurt. I asked
her to see what her mother's beliefs were about her own body. She had fear of
another pregnancy, guilt over a love affair, and shame abut having sex before
marriage all associated with that part of her body. Through this process the
young girl was successful in disassociating from her mother's attitudes and
emotions, developed her own "body language" and has been cramp-free
since. There
are literally hundreds of similar stories that I could relate to you of
seemingly simple, and sometimes innocent events during which a child made emotionally
associated decisions that, through the workings of the subconscious computer,
have affected their life ever since. I have found such decisions to show up
in every area of our lives including choice of marriage partners; interaction
with children; friendships; finances; self esteem; career choice and success;
creativity; use of time; body weight; eating habits; sexual expression;
health and emotional well being. It is
never too late to have a happy childhood. Let your "Inner Child"
know that you love him/her. Play! Be yourself. Love yourself no matter what
you're feeling. Life is a mirror to you of all the decisions you have made
that lie beneath your conscious memory. If there is something in your life
that you would like to be different, know that you are not a victim of it!
You created it and you can change it! Take time each day to praise yourself,
to reflect on what you have done that day that you wanted to do. Contemplate
each part of your body and thank it for all it does for you. Think for yourself,
and you'll find life is soon full of laughter and miracles. Dr.
Joy Vanderbeck, Ph.D., can help you improve your life, your business, and
help you to become empowered to achieve your life’s goals! Call for
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